Unschooling in the House
A random list of unschooly things going on in our household over the last few weeks (partially pulled from my twitter/facebook accounts) and including the learning Shamus and I are doing since it all goes together that way.
- Spending large quantities of time playing Terraria and Roblox with friends online. I love that my shy, introverted boy has found friends his age that are interested in the same thing and has found a way of playing that does not overtax his introverted-ness. When he needs quiet he walks away from the computer (often leaving Skype open… need to work on that). He has always talked through whatever he is doing and being able to talk to someone actually involved in what he is doing is a blessing. He is still shy in person to some extent but this has REALLY helped him come around a bend. He is no longer afraid of playing on the unschool kids Minecraft server (he was afraid people would talk to him and he would have to respond– he prefers building in Minecraft on his own projects.)
- Issac’s reading and writing skills have grown significantly. He is still nervous of typing/writing unless he can copy something but he just had me add youtube videos to his growing list of favorite movies to watch (found 3-2-1 Contact and Square One on youtube and he has been loving them.) He is now confident that he can type in things he has written down, and confident that he can read what I write for him. In fact, yesterday he pointed out that he is now putting closed captioning on on all the videos on Netflix that has it because he is enjoying reading what they are saying. He also had me make a food chart/menu plan for him so he is more confident getting his own foods. It is not a legalistic chart, just suggestions so he doesn’t have to make decisions when hungry. I love that he is confident enough in his reading skills now that he ASKED me to make him a food chart and it didn’t even occur to him to worry about being able to read it.
- He continues in his fascination with all things science and math though I recently heard him declare that he was “no good at math” which is funny because this is the kid that uses math regularly without thought and has always thought of it as a game. I think it was him repeating what he had heard both from his sisters (who are the same way– good at it but imitating what they hear and know is expected) and what he has heard on iCarly and on Ned’s Declassified.
- Recently he has taken to wanting to watch kung fu movies with me (Jackie Chan and Jet Li with the occasional Bruce Li thrown in) which is another testament to his reading since they are mostly the older ones that have subtitles. He also watches my Korean dramas with me (especially the ones with action) and no longer complains of subtitles there.
- Doing tons of experiments with bubbles and various bubble solutions– trying to figure out how water tension works and why.
- He is teaching me how to play Spore Hero– he takes great pleasure in this.
- He is showing interest in maybe, possibly joining us in Just Dance 2 (took him a year to try Dance Dance Revolution) now that we have Kung Fu Fighting and Mambo No. 5. He also loves the song Rockafella Skank but thinks the dance is too embarrassing.
- Recording Minecraft lets play videos with friends that she has been posting on Youtube.
- Designing a dragon from texture pack up in Minecraft so she could hav ea cool desktop background.
- Spending lots of time learning about the ins and outs of the computer so she can personalize her user account on the shared computer. This is carrying over into interest in designing websites. She now wants me to install a wordpress website for her so she can learn to personalize it.
- Reading, reading, reading. She was going kind of nuts because she ran out of books– so we downloaded a whole slew of free ones from Amazon plus she borrowed the Eragon series from my brother.
- Spending a lot of time drawing and painting– often beside me when I am working. She is growing by leaps and bounds and is very comfortable in her artistic skin. In fact I just shared this on Facebook:
- Just saw Essie on chat say confidently “I am an artist.” And she is. She spends a lot of her time not spent reading and writing and on the computer drawing and painting. She sits by me when I work, asks questions, and experiments.
- The thing is she is just like I was EXCEPT she has the confidence to call herself an artist and behave accordingly. It took me YEARS to get that confidence (ps all the way, with all free time spent reteaching what supposed to learn in school but basically unschooled all summer). I internalized all the criticism I received in school and at home and despite drawing and painting from the time I was Essie’s age I didn’t “call” myself an artist until I was in my 30’s.
- If that confidence and comfort with self (and love of the Lord) is all she takes away from our unschooling lifestyle, then it is WELL worth it.
- Writing a Minecraft fan fiction novel She read it aloud what she (with a friend who was spell checking it and giving ideas) had written and it was kind of shocking– it sounded like a real novel. Shamus, who is working on his 3rd novel went on and on about how her pacing was perfect, how she had a good solid voice, etc. Not surprising since she reads constantly but it was a huge jump forward from the last story she wrote (about a year ago.)
- Using tutorials to teach herself Blender (3-d object creator/animator.) This is especially amazing because my husband and I both used Truspace to design avatars for a game years ago and Blender was too much learning curve.
- Using youtube as a piano instructor for harder songs than learning at class. Currently learning a relatively simple (compared to the full version) “Moonlight Sonata”.
- Researching a doll found at the thrift shop in order to sell it on Ebay. Finding out prices, finding out how much it might be worth, learning to photograph it for ebay, learning how to sell on ebay.
- Writing a parody of a song for a youtube video. Practicing singing the song, learning how to record it, as well as learning video editing.
- Weekly babysitting– voluntary 1 day plus in exchange for piano lessons the other– the Friday one means she gets up, packs a lunch, and gets herself out the door on her own because lately I have been sleeping way later.
- Taking lots of photos and learning how to take better photos. She is considering using the money she has been saving to buy a decent camera.
- Spending time with online friends; chatting, playing Words with Friends, and Tripletown.
- Doing a lot more around the house on her own. She is currently sleeping afternoon through evening so I will wake up to find various jobs around the house done. Which is really pretty awesome.
- Playing a game I am not allowed to talk about because it is still in Alpha and he had to sign an NDA, but I can say he loves it.
- Working on his next book (which I get to read and LOVE)– a completely different setting from this one.
- Writing stuff for the Escapist.
- Recording Spoiler Warning.
- Redesigning a website.
- I am working on illustrations for Shamus’ book. (You can see them on my Facebook page if interested: https://www.facebook.com/ElasahArt)
- Editing the final revision of Shamus ‘ book.
- Formatting Shamus’ book.
- Attempting to keep the house in order for showings and fix up what we are able to fix.
- Feeling like I need to share things more online…so I am trying to do that.
- Helping Esther with some art questions she has.
- Helping Rachel figure out how best to record.
- Helping Issac with computer questions.
- Reading James A Owen’s Imaginarium Geographica series which is prompting all kinds of thoughts about classical writers.
- Reading a 1920’s girl detective story I found for free for the Kindle. Very fun. Prompting much thought about the changes in language and slang from then to now.